A Life Style Assessment!

• Limiting yourself will only limit your lifestyle, wouldn’t you agree?
• Is Stress holding you back from making lifestyle changes?
• Financial freedom is that the kind of lifestyle you want?
• Everyone who wants to change their lifestyle sets goals, do you?
• So if you decide to change your lifestyle do you know how to?
• The changes in lifestyle you want are they for you and your family?
• Yes we need a mentor to assist with achieving our lifestyle changes, do you have one?
• Lifestyle changes come at a cost, are you willing to do what it takes to achieve?
• Even if you earn extra money can you use it wisely to make your lifestyle changes?

I believe that the word “Lifestyle” is actually a generalisation.

Why?

Well one persons lifestyle may be great for them whereas someone else would consider it to be below par!

Just like beauty it is in the eye of the beholder.

So how do we decide as an individual what our lifestyle should be, firstly we should not see ourselves through the eyes of others but what you feel comfortable with that you can personally enjoy and share.

There are many factors that come into play!

Here Are Some of the Important Ones;

• Commitment to achieve for the right reasons
• Help, we all need some so in return we can help others
• Attitude is being able to accept the good along with the not so good
• No looking back, if you hold on to the past how can build a successful future
• Getting back control of your life you need to be master of your money, not its slave
• Effort and time are your best friends when applied correctly and balanced
• Setting attainable goals that can remain flexible and therefore easier to accomplish

My wish is to offer assistance where possible to those of you who want to make “Lifestyle Changes” and introduce you to different ideas services and products, plus and its an important plus help you to maintain the motivation necessary to put in the time and the effort required on your road to success.

The Fuel to Fire Up Your Success comes from First The Dream

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Have a fantastic day and come back soon…

Paul Mara aka PAPY PAUL MARA

First The Dream Continued

A simple piece of advice, take a couple of minutes to review the last page First The Dream and see if you have covered all the different types of goals, after that you can move on.
Paul Mara aka Papy Paul Mara

TIME OUTS OVER

Hi there how did you get on, was the “Time Out” long enough?
 
NO!
 
That’s fine just come back and review First The Dream once you have your list.
Did you get a chance to check out “Setting Goals Successfully”?
Not yet!
 
That’s fine to, it is so important to get your GOALS correct so take your time but I advice you to have a look as soon as you can, you will be impressed.
 
Time to get back on track!

LET’S GET SERIOUS!

Now that you have your list, break it down into categories listed in the last post.

CREATE AN OBJECTIVE!

To determine how much you want these goals, write a short sentence to justify why you want each one.
 
If you struggle with this then you really need to look closer at that goal, remember be flexible and either adjust it or eliminate it.

I’M EXCITED!

Look fantastic now! Well the next step is to give them a time factor, daily, weekly, monthly, 1 year, 3 years, 5 years and 10 years.
 
Remain flexible you can always change the date.
This then becomes an objective!

ACT NOW!

You must plan!
 
Develop a “PLAN OF ACTION”.
 
Both Short-term and Long-term goals need you to start planning now, break them down into achievable steps.

REMEMBER:

The only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.

PLANNING 4 PROSPERITY

1. Read you goals three times daily. (1st thing in the morning, lunchtime and last thing at night.)
2. Think of them often. (Place images where you will see them all the time)
3. Review your weekly “PLAN OF ACTION”. (Persistence overcomes resistance)
4. Stay “POSITIVE” by reading and listening to positive material. (The secret to your future success is hidden in your daily routine)
5. Believe that you have already achieved it. (Action – Focus – Belief)
6. Review goals fortnightly. (Be flexible, refocus improve and continually believe)
7. I f you have had success in the past use it to motivate yourself. (Experience breeds success)
8. Have faith – Faith removes limitation

REMEMBER:

Your worst enemies or dream busters when it comes to goal setting and objectives are most likely to be your family or you’re so called best friends.
 
Only share your goals with people who will support you or happen to possibly be part of your goal (e.g. couples, husband and wife or business partners etc.) as they can affect the outcome both positively and negatively.

GOAL SETTERS ARE WINNERS!

It has been proved time and again that those who actually write down their GOALS and OBJECTIVES then READ them at least THRICE daily create the SUCCESS they DESIRE.
SUCCESS TO YOU

Have a fantastic Goal Setting Smart day and come back soon… Papy Paul

PS

Remember what I said about the connection between being Goals Setting Smart and The Laws Of Attraction, simply click on the banner and you will be enlightened…

I first posted the following three articles beginning with FIRST THE DREAM on the 17th January 20011 then FIRST THE DREAM contd! posted the 8th of February 2011 Then I finished with YOUR LIFESTYLE posted the 15th of February 2011 on my personal blog PaulMara.name which I have now transferred here.
I am sure you will enjoy these articles.
Thank You
Paul Mara

First The Dream

Even though I am in my 60’s I still set goals that are fueled by my dreams and I was wondering how many people reading my posts in any of my blogs understand the importance of setting GOALS and being Goal Setting Smart.
 
So what I have written is an outline for a quality product with far more precisions.
Please take the time to read through this carefully take notes then purchase this exceptional product.
All the best! Paul

To Do The Incredible
You Must FIRST DREAM the Impossible

When we were children we dreamt large dreams, we knew no boundaries and the sky was the limit!
True?
Have you ever asked yourself “What Happened To Those Dreams?”

What Next

Just sit down right now with a piece of paper and a pen or pencil and write down all the things you wanted as a child, most of us do remember some things, boys it was maybe a Fireman and girls maybe an Airline Hostess, whatever it was it was imprinted in your mind and you will be amazed at what you can recall.
 
The same way you learnt to count and learnt the alphabet as a child we retained an unbelievable amount of knowledge and of course part of that were our dreams we had.
 
So how did the list go?
 
I’m sure you remembered some of those childhood dreams, if not all of them.
Ok!
Now let’s reflect on what our goals are today for the future, if you already have some great, if not it’s time to start!
 
Every person who reads this even if you have set goals already should look at the following list, just so as to get some ideas on what type of goal to put down and “Why Set a Goal”.

Read this list carefully and choose what you consider to be relevant to you personally.
Goal setting is very personal!
All your goals on your list must be tangible.
 
INITIALLY MAKE A LIST FROM EACH OF THE CATEGORIES:

PERSONAL GOALS:

Quality Family Time

Family – Quality family time
Financial – Look at ways to increase your income
Spiritual life – Personal choice
Health – Healthy life style
Marriage – Time alone together
Home – Plant a vegetable garden
Social – Take your family out for dinner once a month (Not KFC)

PROFESSIONAL GOALS:

Mentor – So Important To Your Success
Learning / Education – Home Study – Night Classes
Business – Begin Your Own Business
Investments – Investment Property
Promotions – Learn Techniques To Advertise Your Business

SELF DEVELOPMENT GOALS:

Good Health is Important To Enjoying Life

Improving Quality of Life – Reading Motivational Material
Physical – Exercise – Fitness
Spiritual – Personal Choice
Intellectual – Maybe Learn Another Language

MATERIAL GOALS:

Travel – Family Holiday – Second Honeymoon
Home – Purchase Your Own Home
Vehicles – Family Car or People Mover
Boats – Speed Boat – Yacht
Furniture – New Lounge Suite
Clothing – New Clothes
Jewellery – A Pearl Necklace
And anything else you want to add.

TIME OUT:

I believe it will be beneficial to your progress to take a break here and take the time to absorb everything you have read so far.
 
Read it several times with a notepad and pen in hand and take as many notes as possible!
This is so important to your success!
 
Look forward to sharing with you again very soon.
First The Dream Continued Click Here…

Dream Big Dreams and have a fantastic day and come back soon…

Paul Mara aka PAPY PAUL MARA

PS

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What is it you ask?

The Law Of Attraction

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First Quote Of The Year 2012 From Paul Mara

Ia Ora Na Ite Matahiti Api

Bonne Année A Tous

(My Native Language Tahitian)
Bonne Année

My beautiful wife and I wish you all an especially Healthy, Prosperous and Happy 2012.

Anecdote

My First Christmas Present??
Unfortunately 9 of my Blogs were hacked in the second week of December 2011 sadly by another low life of our online community who gets pleasure from making other peoples lives miserable.

Personally it’s not the first time for me, but what was upsetting was the difference between the hosting companies and their attitude.
The last time I was hacked the company restored all 21 blogs and offered more security information.
Not complaining just saying it is important to be careful when choosing your hosting company.

So what is in store for us in 2012???

Well I am a great follower of the Chinese Astrology and the following is what I have read about this Chinese New Year starting on the 23rd of January 2012

Chinese New Year 2012 – The Year of The Dragon

Black Water Dragon???

I read that it is actually the Black Water Dragon, please inform me if this is incorrect, thanks!
I believe the year 2012 is going to be one of the best years ever on the calendar.

Even though the Mayan believe that the end is nigh!
Ummm?
I don’t make fun of what I don’t totally understand, leave well alone!
Agreed?
Your guess is as good as mine.

Goodbye 11 – Thank Heaven

Personally the last 14 months has been one of the toughest ever for our family, it has certainly been a proving ground for several members of our family including myself.
It has made us a far stronger family which I believe will overcome whatever is thrown at us in the future.
As the saying goes “United We Stand Divided We Fall”.

Face Book Post Fun

On the 31st of December 2011 I posted the following comment, surprisingly I got no feed back which is most unusual, anyway read on, then please feel free to leave a comment!

New Years Resolutions – Food For Thought…

Start Off 2012 On The Right Foot Now!

You have 365 days or 366 in a leap year to make resolutions.
True?
To concentrate all your “Resolutions” into one day makes no sense.
True?
Make the “FIRST DAY” of the New Year a day to be thankful for Your Parents, Your Grandparents and your fore fathers.
WHY?
Because without them you wouldn’t be here today.
True?
At least a “Minutes Silence” in their memory once the festivities are over!
Maybe at lunch or dinner on the “First Day” of the New Year!
Post a list in 6 months of how many of “Your Resolutions” were successful, if you believe it and commit you will succeed.

Online Success In 2012 Right Here

All the Best…
I wish every person in the world (Big Call) a very Healthy, Prosperous and Happy New Year, yep a little early but why fight the crowd.

PS

Can’t wait to hear some feed back…….??????????????????
Well I actually got no feed back at all, everyone was to busy!

I will leave you with a song by a great artist taken well before her time… Find Out Who Here…

Well that’s how I will begin 2012, with this short post that I will be putting up on all of my blogs.

Please Support My Grandsons Charity Or A Charity Supporting Research For Leukeamia In Children, Thank You!
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© Copyright 2011, Paul Mara All Rights Reserved

8 Tips For Success In Life

Personal goal setting is one of the best things you can do if you truly desire to be successful in life.
Sadly, only a small percentage of people actually make goals for themselves regularly.
But those are the most successful people you will meet!
Following are eight tips for success in life to help you use personal goal setting to achieve those things that are truly important to you.

• Smarter goal setting means you must put your goals in writing, this will solidify them and make them very real.
  It also is the first step, and taking action is a key factor in reaching your goals.
  Writing them down also makes them more real.
  Unwritten goals with no game plan are really nothing more than wishes. And wishes don’t get you very far, but written goals will!

• Prioritize goals especially when it comes to personal goal setting, it is essential that you prioritize your goals.
  Decide which ones are the most crucial for you to achieve.
  Those are the ones on which you want to devote the most energy.
  Those that end up at the bottom of your list may not be truly important to you, and they can be addressed at a later date in time if needed.

• Write smart goals down as positive statements.
  For example, rather than “lose 10 pounds” or “stop overeating”, you might write “reach the healthy weight of 10 pounds or 5 kilos” or “eat only until I’m satisfied”.

• Make your goals very clear and specific. With personal goal setting, if your goals are vague, you won’t likely succeed because you’re not really aiming at anything specific.
  An “iffy” goal is like throwing darts blind-folded (which I don’t recommend!).
  You might, by chance, hit the dart board but it is highly unlikely.
  Vague goals would be things such as “lose weight” or “make more money”.
  Make them more specific; for example “make $10,000 per month”.
  That way you can measure process and you will know exactly when you have reached your goal. (After all, “make more money” could mean that you’re earning $5 more per month, which probably isn’t what you are striving for, right?)

• Create timelines specifically for reaching each of your goals.
  Not having a clear time frame in mind is very similar to having vague goals; you may never reach it because you take forever getting there.
  Creating a timeline gives you a sense of urgency, and will help spur motivation. Urgency and motivation are two important factors in personal goal setting.

• Realistic goal setting, make sure your goals (and timelines) are realistic.
  For example, if you weight 250 pounds and your goal is to reach 150 pounds, you probably want to give yourself more than a month or two to reach your goal!
  Unrealistic goals and timelines are a quick path to failure when it comes to poor goal setting.

Paul’s Perception

Goals setting has been proved to be one of the easiest ways to accomplish or obtain whatever your heart desires.
Your “Dreams” can become a reality!
Dreams are the fuel you need to maintain your motivation to continue to achieve.
Take the time to check out the information and make you own decision.
Still not sure read the biography of someone you admire, I’m sure somewhere they will discuss their goals and or objectives in their lives.
Set one “GOAL” today, make a positive change now!

Yes! Goal Setting Does Make A difference! Try It!